I believe that the souls of good people end up in some kind of eternity, I would not exactly describe it as heaven, in the Christian definition. *** I believe that the Bible lays out some very good ideals of how to live and how people should live by being "nice" to each other and so on, but ultimately, I guess I just don’t buy all of that fire and brimstone stuff, and miracles left, right and centre. I even found out a little bit about Buddhism, and liked some of the stuff I found out, until I found out that they have, shall we say, very strict views on sexually and what is sexually "proper" (for the lack of another word). *** My sex life is what I call normal, if only slightly kinky. I have a friend who I have an arrangement to see when the want arises. She is a prostitute and one of my best friends. She keeps telling me that I am very special to her. We are not exactly straight-laced (neither of us), but we know what we are doing and we are both consenting adults and that’s really all that needs to be said. *** In the past I have been betrayed by people, workmates, who I once trusted - all in the name of playing a practical joke, to humiliate and embarrass me about my private life. I don’t like what they did to me, but I don’t despise them for it either. (I don’t have the time or energy to hate people). I think that their actions only go to prove just how shallow they really are. I don’t work with these people any more (because they have moved on to other jobs). Pokies Here I am again in the club.